Episode 80

The 10Ninety Rule with Mason Sawyer

Summary:

In this episode, Cristie and DeAnna speak with Mason Sawyer after losing his wife, children, brother, and nephew to a horrifying car accident, leaving his 3-year-old son as the only survivor. Mason gets vulnerable as he shares what the process of healing has looked like for him, the guilt he faced after the accident, and how he’s fought to avoid the victim mentality. 

This is a story of resilience and surviving insurmountable trauma. At 32-years-old, Mason has since become a mental health advocate for people of all ages by openly sharing his story through speaking engagements, support groups, and ultimately launching his own podcast, The 10Ninety, as a way to shed light on life’s challenges and how to overcome them.

Key Takeaways:

  • [03:50] Mason shares his unbelievably tragic story of losing his family in a car accident
  • [10:29] The #1 thing Mason has learned in processing this trauma
  • [13:06] The difficulties that come in the 2nd year of processing trauma
  • [16:37] The positive impact Mason has had on men’s mental health 
  • [18:39] What is the 10Ninety Rule?
  • [24:36] How Mason feels about the person he is now
  • [27:27] How his 3-year-old son who miraculously survived the accident is doing today 
  • [29:39] The #1 motivation keeping him going
  • [31:17] Why you should never compare your grief to someone else’s
  • [36:34] Avoiding the trap of the victim mentality
  • [38:47] The #1 piece of advice to support anyone experiencing any type of trauma 
  • [42:05] What would 15-year-old Mason say to 32-year-old Mason?


Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Learn more about the 10Ninety Podcast by visiting their website.
  • You can also connect with Mason on Instagram!
  • Tune into Cristie's episode on the 10Ninety Podcast here.
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Cristie & DeAnna

DeAnna Robbins is a lover of learning and connecting with REAL people. A Grandma of 4, mom of 4 and wife of one. Her role of being "middle aged" is the current Life Lesson. How to take care of aging parents, be a mom, step mom, wife and professional woman, oh the fun. DeAnna has seen the dark and ugly side of abuse, alcoholism and suffering but believes you are either a victim or a player. She chose to be a player.

Cristie North is a wife, mother of 6 and grandmother of 2. She just turned 50 and is learning to navigate the reality of empty nesting. She has endured trials of divorce, alcohol abuse, blended family and grief. She celebrates every part of her journey as her belief is that each challenge makes us the remarkable, complicated beautiful souls we are today. She has been in the mortgage industry for over 28 years and currently manages a top producing mortgage company in Salt Lake City, Utah.