Episode 89

The Emotional Shock of Retirement

Summary:

In today’s episode of the Pieces of a Woman Podcast, Cristie and DeAnna discuss the emotional and often overlooked sides of retirement. Sharing from their own lives and conversations with friends who are navigating this major life shift, they broaden the usual retirement discussion beyond the financials to focus on the mental and emotional readiness that’s so crucial. They discuss how retirement reshapes your identity, everyday life, and even personal relationships—especially when spouses retire at different times. They also shed light on the "retirement blues," a lesser-known yet significant issue, and share strategies for tackling this new chapter with vitality and enthusiasm. From picking up new hobbies and navigating social shifts to fortifying mental health, Cristie and DeAnna highlight the need for broad retirement planning that supports financial security and emotional and social well-being, ensuring a rich and rewarding retirement.

Key Takeaways:

  • [01:00] The importance of mental and emotional readiness for retirement.
  • [03:00] How retirement reshapes your identity.
  • [06:00] The complexities of adjusting relationships when one spouse retires before the other.
  • [08:00] Insights into recognizing and managing retirement blues.
  • [11:00] The importance of staying actively engaged through hobbies and community involvement to combat the potential isolation and inactivity of retirement.
  • [13:00] The importance of adjusting to social changes and maintaining strong social connections to enhance post-retirement life.


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Cristie & DeAnna

DeAnna Robbins is a lover of learning and connecting with REAL people. A Grandma of 4, mom of 4 and wife of one. Her role of being "middle aged" is the current Life Lesson. How to take care of aging parents, be a mom, step mom, wife and professional woman, oh the fun. DeAnna has seen the dark and ugly side of abuse, alcoholism and suffering but believes you are either a victim or a player. She chose to be a player.

Cristie North is a wife, mother of 6 and grandmother of 2. She just turned 50 and is learning to navigate the reality of empty nesting. She has endured trials of divorce, alcohol abuse, blended family and grief. She celebrates every part of her journey as her belief is that each challenge makes us the remarkable, complicated beautiful souls we are today. She has been in the mortgage industry for over 28 years and currently manages a top producing mortgage company in Salt Lake City, Utah.